Most kids need a regular schedule. They get this during the day at school, but what about when they get home? You will want to develop your own after school routine that your kids can follow. Trust me; you will be thankful you did.
There is a lot of great information out there to help make your morning routine go more smoothly (we’ve even got one HERE). However, what about after school? The kids come bursting through the door and then it seems that chaos begins. There are shoes, backpacks, homework, snacks. It all can quickly drive mom insane!
The trick is to create an effective after-school routine, or schedule. When you have one, everyone knows what to do and can help keep a good rhythm running in your house. Of course, you may need to tailor this to each child, depending upon age and maturity. Even my own kids are different. That means the way I run our routine differs a bit for each of them.
AFTER SCHOOL SCHEDULE
No matter your child’s age, there are things each of them can do. For us it is simple, they have three things they need to do the minute they walk through the door:
Put your backpack where it belongs
Find a location in your house where your child’s backpack will “live.” It could be a hook on the wall, in the hall closet or on the floor by the entryway. In our house, my kids put their backpacks on the bench in our hallway.
Put your shoes where you can find them
To make the morning more efficient, have your child take his or her shoes off and set them near their backpack, or another place. That way, there is no rushing around the morning to find that sneaker that is hiding beneath their bed.
Grab an after school snack
Kids are usually hungry when they come walking through the door. Have a snack basket, filled with “mom approved” snacks ready for them.
Schedule some downtime
Whether it is right when they get home or later in the evening, give your kids some free time. It may mean playing outside, watching one TV program or limited time on a tablet. Kids need a chance to do what they want each day.
Complete your homework
For some families, kids must do their homework as soon as they walk through the door after school. For others, it happens after dinner time. There is no right or wrong time to do your homework. Find the time that works best for your skill.
Do your chores
Kids have things they need to do each day. It might be cleaning their room, unloading the dishwasher or taking out the trash. It may also include helping with dinner by setting the table and doing the dishes. It can be helpful to keep a list of chores displayed, so your child knows what he or she has to do each day.
The above is a guide. You know your kids and your skill.#8217;s routine. There may be days where you have practice or games that throw your after school schedule out of balance. Those are the days where you may need to be more flexible. It might be the day of the week when they get to skip the chores to allow more time for homework.
While this is all great, it is good to help teach your kids how to do this themselves. My kids are very visual. They will do everything they see on a sign or a list much more frequently than they do if they have to remember on their own (or even if mom has to tell them).
For this reason, I created a printable after school checklist. It is a simple way for them to remember what they need to do when they get home from school. We have ours hanging up in our pantry. This way, they see it when they grab their snack, so the remember everything they need to do.
It really makes our afternoons so much better! Here are ways to help ensure your kids use this checklist:
- and attach it to the refrigerator .
- Put it in a photo frame and use a dry erase marker for them to check it off daily.
- Print out copies and give them a new one to use every single day (I’d print in black and white to save money on printer ink).
Whatever you do, try to set a routine for your kids. They need to know what comes next and it really helps reduce stress (and even tears)!!